WeddingChannel.com editors hit all the hottest shows at this spring’s bridal fashion week to get the buzz on what brides can expect to see in gown boutiques this fall. Here’s what’s coming in bridal fashion for 2009:

 

Ball Gowns Are Back

Last season was all about trumpet- and mermaid-style gowns, but in late summer and early fall, expect to see ball gowns everywhere in every variation. Here, top designer Carolina Herrera debuts this gorgeous take on the classic style. This ivory strapless gown features a Duchesse satin bustier with a tiered net skirt and a cathedral-length tulle veil.

 

Put a Belt on It

Belts made a big appearance on this year’s runways. A perfect way to give a romantic gown a little understated edge. We saw some pretty fierce belted gowns, both long, and short, and it worked with all skirt styles. Many of the belts were adorned with crystals or brooches to add extra detailing to the dress. Many belts were even removable so the bride could either place them at her waist line, or slide them down a little lower to rest on her hips. This is “Frankie” from Vineyard, a short belted dress made with pleated organza.

 

Dramatic Backs

The back of the gowns were the real show stoppers this year. While things were pretty and simple in front, the back views really brought the sexy. Look out for unique shapes, styles, and very dramatic drops. Here, you see, an organic silk chiffon dress with a racer back from Justin Alexander’s new PURE. Line of eco-friendly gowns.

Fun With Ruffles

Ruffles are back on the bridal fashion scene, and they’re bigger and bolder than ever — popping up on skirts and necklines. “Elke” from Vineyard Collection features a flounced halter neckline with dramatic ruffles on an organza fit-and-flare gown. (Seen here in ivory.)

 

The Little White Dress

This season, the shorter and sassier the gown the better. Look for super short numbers that resemble your favorite little black dress – just in white. Grab it and board a plan for your destination wedding or switch into one for your reception dress. Either way, we’re loving the look, and this strapless taffeta bubble dress with embroidered detail and a silk flower accent from was one of our absolute favorites.

 

Lots of Pretty Bows

Bows are always pretty, and this year, they’re big and small and in all sorts of fabrics and are helping to add a girly charm to gowns. The oversized bow on this Christos gown with a sweetheart neckline is just so pretty, and it really brings attention to the details of the gown.

Vintage Brooches

The brooch was by far the hottest dress accessory on the runway. Whether large, small, vintage, or colorful, there’s no way they won’t add a little “wow” factor to your gown. Take this silk jersey A-line gown from Amsale for example. The cowl neckline and sleek look are divine, but the brooch completes the vintage inspired look and feel. (Lookout for hair pieces and veils with similar-era style inspirations.)

 

Back to the 80s

Listen up, brides, the ’80s are calling! Remember your neon green bubble-hemmed prom dress? The look has returned — this time in white! Embrace the decade with picks like this draped skirt dress with a net jacket from Alfred Angelo.

 

Fancy Feathers

Look out for feathers in unexpected places this season. On waistlines, on dress hems, on cuff bracelets — you name it. Our favorite furry find this season? This silk satin A-line gown with hand-draped fan pleating from Priscilla of Boston’s fall 2009 line.

Decked with ruffles, ruching and rosettes,

A first look at the hottest fashion an the bridal runway

mini dresses

never looked so sweet Hike up those hemlines! Wedding dresses have hit knee-length and higher. Flaunting half the fabric as

their floor-length counterparts, these cropped cuties certainly don’t come up short in style. The assortment of silhouettes are suited to city or garden «I dos,» sunset nuptials on the sand and the everfashionable quick-change bride who’s looking to let loose at her reception.

 

Designers are enjoying a love affair with

colorful dresses

and we’re just tickled pink about it Color me … beautifully. That’s the message top designers sent down

the Fall 09 bridal runway with dresses in unconventional shades from sky blue to celery green. Vera Wang’s golden hued dress was an absolute hit, while pleasing colors

for every palette graced the catwalk at Reem Acra. Whatever shade of you you’re hoping to explore, this season you’ll have your pick of the perfect colorful dress.

 

flower appliques

These gowns are anything but garden variety.

It’s only appropriate that wedding dresses hitting bridal salons this spring will be adorned with flowers.

Almost every wedding dress designer featured at least one gorgeous gown with a floral detail at the Fall 2009 Bridal Shows.

From tiny buds to large blooms, blossoms of all shapes and sizes add a feminine touch to a waistline, skirt detail or train.

 

Harking back to the 7930s,

lace dresses

rouse a modern-day bride 15 sumptuous side Looking for a gown that’s ultra elegant? Consider the lovely lace options shown by designers like Monique Liluilier and Badgley Mischka. Whether draped in the fabric from head to toe or through intricate accents and overlays, lace can be both conservative and

modern, offering the best of both worlds for a bride who’s looking to meld the trends. The sophisticated offerings featured here allow you to

explore your feminine side with effortless ease.

 

 

Glamorous

With a style that’s sleek, chic and a little bit dramatic, you adore the spotlight and all the glitz it garners.

The Dress: Look for a dress that complements your slightly sinful personality—shimmery, silvery, metallic fabrics that skim every curve. Extravagant silhouettes like fishtail hemlines and hip-hugging bodices say sexy screen siren. Don’t forget the sequins, feathers and fur.

Designers You Love: Jenny Packham, Reem Acra

The Scene: A mansion, penthouse or poolside with cabanas is where you’ll make your debut as Mrs. Fabulous.

Must-Have Accessory: Fur wrap

 

All the Trimmings: Your fondness for flash doesn’t stop with the dress. Key accoutrements like strappy snakeskin sandals, a luxurious mink wrap and a beaded clutch complement your gown’s shimmery, metallic fabrics. An attention-grabbing flyaway veil says, «Check me out!»

 

Signature Hairstyle: Va-va-voom tresses à la Brigitte Bardot

 

Vibrant colors and attention-grabbing accents go hand-in-hand with your love of the limelight. You dress with bravado, and your wedding decor should follow suit. A mansion, penthouse or poolside with cabanas sets the scene.

Bouquets: Choose lush yet sleek bouquets, blending exotic and proper blooms. Vintage brooch–inspired embellishment, jeweled or rhinestone accents and feathers lend a dramatic touch.

Floral Decor: Towering, tiered and topiary-style centerpieces make a grand statement. Lush arrangements create a lavish base beneath regal candelabras.

Best Blooms: Parrot tulips, orchids, Canova tulips, French anemones, grape hyacinth, Hot Chocolate calla lilies, mimosa

Favorite Colors: Bold purple, scarlet, chocolate, silver and pearly ivory

 

The Jewels: High-wattage bling suits you best—the bigger the bauble, the better, you say. Diamonds dazzle as chunky chokers, extravagant hairpins and dramatic drop earrings—the perfect flourishes for a body-flaunting gown or metallic fabric that skims every curve. Cocktail rings and flashy cuffs serve up the perfect dose of gutsy glam.

 

The glamorous bride:

Dramatic

Leading lady

Urbane

Bon vivant

Jet-setting

Luxe

 

Romantic

You’ve spent a lifetime dreaming of your prince, the castle, the fairy-tale ending. Your closet of frilly confections celebrates your feminine side.

The Dress: Choose a Cinderella ball gown or a dress with layer upon layer of lace. Think reams of ruffles, billowy tulle, brocade fabric, basque waists, Edwardian necklines, perhaps a corset. Plus lots of embellishment—beading, crystals and jewels.

Designers You Love: Justina McCaffrey, Lazaro, Eve of Milady, Michelle Roth, Claire Pettibone, St. Pucchi, Elizabeth Fillmore

The Scene: You say «I do» somewhere magical—a castle, or botanical or sculpture gardens.

Must-Have Accessory: Tiara

 

All the Trimmings: Every fairy-tale ceremony merits a majestic cathedral veil, the perfect companion for a Cinderella ball gown or lace-layered dress. Opera gloves or a crocheted shawl complete the look. Shoes are bejeweled and embroidered; lace-up booties are beautifully baroque.

 

Signature Hairstyle: An updo with soft tendrils

 

You’ve nabbed your prince, now it’s time to play out your fantasy wedding. The mood is magical, the scenery enchanting. The setting: a castle, or botanical or sculpture gardens—poetry personified.

Bouquets: Select round pomanders and sweet cascading styles. Lace-wrapped stems look ultrafeminine and modest.

Floral Decor: Embellish your reception site with floral arches, arrangements set in gold vases, a sprinkling of rose petals.

Best Blooms: Roses, iris, sweet peas, pansies, ranunculus, peonies

Favorite Colors: Red, pink, white

 

The Jewels: Cameo-inspired earrings and heirloom locket pendants transport you to a time when lavishly ruffled gowns with trailing tulle and lace were de rigueur. Gemstones pretty up precious metals; a jewel-encrusted tiara worn atop soft, sensual curls transforms you into a princess.

 

The romantic bride:

Feminine

Dreamy

Sentimental

Poetic

Frilly

Princess

Sumptuous

 

 

Classic

Every bit a lady, you take your cue from Jackie O, Audrey Hepburn and Grace Kelly. Your fashion sensibility is tasteful, traditional, timeless.

The Dress: Choose clean, simple lines and delicate details. An A-line or sheath silhouette with a portrait, bateau or jeweled neckline lends an understated elegance. Shy away from over-the-top fabrics and flourishes.

 

Designers You Love: Carolina Herrera, Priscilla of Boston, Amsale, Anne Barge, Alvina Valenta, Peter Langner

The Scene: A mansion, country club or sprawling estate defines your dream wedding site.

Must-Have Accessory: Grandmother’s pearls

 

All the Trimmings: Embellish an A-line or sheath silhouette with chic slingbacks or proper pumps with an unassuming Sabrina heel. Keep colors neutral and fabrics classic, like peau de soie and silk shantung. A sweeping tulle veil with satin edging is simple yet sophisticated. A slender silk clutch adds a polished and pretty touch.

 

Signature Hairstyle: A sleek chignon

 

Delicate details and simple elegance define your dream decor. With a nod to days gone by, you cull inspiration from all that’s traditional, tasteful and timeless. A mansion, country club or sprawling estate sets the scene for your big day.

Bouquets: Choose trim and tailored arrangements that are round, symmetrical and tightly packed. Silk-wrapped stems fastened with pearl pins are graceful, refined and in good taste.

Floral Decor: Centerpieces are sophisticated and elegant, with soft, muted colors and sleek shapes. Fishbowl-style vases display pretty, petite arrangements.

Best Blooms: Creamy French tulips, roses, calla lilies, peonies, hydrangea, wild sweet peas, Queen Anne’s lace, lilacs, gardenias, white violets and stephanotis. Add ivy as a symbol of fidelity.

Favorite Colors: White, cream and pale pastels. A bouquet of flowers in varying shades of white is both classic and chic.

 

The Jewels: Delicate diamond studs and chandelier earrings add elegant sparkle to A-line and sheath silhouettes. Single-strand pearls perfectly offset portrait and bateau necklines. Simple gold bands, bracelets and watches are slender, refined and luminous against unembellished fabrics, and echo a classic gown’s graceful lines.

 

The classic bride:

Timeless

Elegant

Understated

Sophisticated

Polished

Graceful

Ladylike

 

 

Modern

Slightly unconventional and always fashion-forward, you’re the gal who’s setting the trends—heavy on the class but with a soupçon of sass.

The Dress: Look for chic body-hugging gowns, metallic hues and sharp, structured silhouettes. A sheath or short cocktail dress is just right for you. Keep an eye out for classic flourishes worn in fresh ways—a bow at the bustle or supersized at the waist. Other trendy treatments: pleated skirts, geometric patterns.

Designers You Love: Vera Wang, Monique Lhuillier

The Scene: An art museum or gallery is your ideal wedding-day hot spot.

Must-Have Accessory: A platinum wedding band

 

All the Trimmings: Simplicity is key. Offset a chic body-hugging sheath or short cocktail dress with one strategically placed, attention-grabbing detail—sexy sandals, a colorful satin sash or a metallic clutch with a gemstone clasp. A sleek satin headband stands in for a traditional headpiece.

Signature Hairstyle: A ponytail pulled tight

 

Bold yet minimal, untraditional with a focused, classy twist—your sensibility is fresh and fashion-forward. An art museum or gallery is your ideal wedding-day hot spot.

Bouquets: Bold and architectural bouquets fit your streamlined sensibility. Clean, sleek bouquets are simply tied. Opt for single-bud arrangements.

Floral Decor: Monochromatic arrangements put the focus on texture and creative design. Trumpet vases with a single bloom say minimalist chic; individual arrangements at each place setting are creative and au courant.

Best Blooms: White daisies, single bud calla lilies, bare-stemmed bouquets, cosmos, tulips, orchids

 

The Jewels: Unadorned metals look stunning against a chic body-hugging gown or short cocktail dress. Minimalist shapes and finishes allow subtle yet inspired dress details—pleats, architectural seaming and textural treatments—to shine. A single platinum wedding band makes a stand-alone statement.

 

The modern bride:

Au courant

Minimalist

Trendy

Streamlined

Simple chic

Fashionable

 

bohemian

A little bit wild child and somewhat zen, your look is earthy, pretty, ethereal. A collage of cultures, the style you sport is uniquely yours.

The Dress: Nothing says earth angel like a wispy Empire-waist gown. Focus on soft layers of fluttery fabrics with delicate details—a pretty ribbon or velvet sash, floral embroidery or a sheer overlay. Avoid structured, opulent fabrics and silhouettes.

Designers You Love: Morgane Le Fay

The Scene: A valley or wooded glen plays host to your big day.

Must-Have Accessory: Flower hair wreath

 

All the Trimmings: A sprinkling of blossoms or a flowery wreath worn in the hair flatters an Empire-waist gown. Play up your earth angel esprit with an unstructured purse festooned with floral appliqués. Silk ballet skimmers or a sweeping, embroidered tulle veil—delicate and featherlight—enchants.

 

Signature Hairstyle: Untamed and free-spirited tresses

 

A little bit wild child and somewhat zen, you embrace all that’s earthy, pretty and ethereal. A valley or wooded glen blending a collage of customs and cultures plays host to your big day.

Bouquets: Look for oversize, loosely arranged flowers peppered with organic elements like berries, herbs and ferns. Bouquets are ribbon-tied to create a just-picked feel.

Floral Decor: Contrasting textures and a mélange of colors create an overgrown yet gorgeous look. Towering twigs, pussy willows and pebble-filled vases add woodsy charm. A hot trend: fruit- and vegetable-filled vases.

Best Blooms: Queen Anne’s lace, fragrant herbs, thistle, grass, pods, blooms, wildflowers, sunflowers. Edible bouquet, anyone? Choose sage, lavender, oregano, hot peppers from your local greenmarket.

Favorite Colors: Earth tones mixed with oranges, purples and pinks

 

The Jewels: Art Nouveau–inspired enameled metals that take inspiration from nature’s sinuous shapes—leaves, vines and berries—pair up perfectly with an Empire-waist gown with fluttery fabric and delicate embellishment. Hand-painted details pay homage to nature’s poetic disposition.

 

The bohemian bride:

Ethereal

Hippie

Enchanting

Earthy

Free spirit

Whimsical

 

Beach casual

Your style is easy, relaxed—as breezy as a summer’s low tide. Clothes slip on and bare a little skin for a look that’s pure, innocent, sensual.

The Dress: You fancy featherweight fabrics and flowing silhouettes. A slinky slip dress complements your go-with-the-flow raison d’être. Look for a strapless neckline or spaghetti straps that show off a sexy expanse of skin.

Designers You Love: Amy Michelson, Reva Mivasagar, Jim Hjelm, Badgley Mischka

The Scene: On the sand, in your backyard or at a local vineyard is where you’ll wed.

Must-Have Accessory: Flip-flops

 

All the Trimmings: Enhance a slinky slip dress with easy-to-kick-off sequined slides or thongs. Or skip the footwear and go barefoot for a simple, sporty style. A pint-size purse embellished with creamy paillettes says casual cool; a whimsical starfish hairpin replaces a traditional headpiece and veil.

 

Signature Hairstyle: Loose and wavy locks

 

Breezy blues and sunset hues convey your serene, sensual disposition. White-sand beaches, backyard greenery or a flourishing vineyard create the perfect backdrop for your whimsical wedding.

Bouquets: Select relaxed, unstructured arrangements with a lush island-style vibe. Long hand-tied stems are wrapped with twine or raffia.

Floral Decor: Decorate cascading centerpieces with sea-inspired ornaments like miniature shells and starfish, or daisies and sunflowers for garden themes. Floating candles create a beachy, by-the-lake touch.

Best Blooms: Blue delphinium, orchids, daisies, roses, gardenias, lilies of the valley, dahlias, narcissus

Favorite Colors: Blue, pale green and white, or tropical orange, yellow and red

 

The Jewels: Select pieces inspired by the sea—tranquil aquamarine gemstones, coral pendants, a bracelet strung with shells. Splashes of color add a tropical-island vibe to featherweight fabrics and slinky slip dresses. Multistranded necklaces and oversize stones look organic and sexy against sun-kissed skin.

The beach casual bride:

Relaxed

Simple

Pure

Breezy

Healthy

Sporty

 

Do’s and Don’ts of Strapless Dresses

• DO make sure your arms are well toned – strapless dresses draw attention to the arms and neck
• DON’T shy away from strapless dresses because you think you may be too busty. Curvy, well-proportioned figures suit strapless best
• DO wear well-fitted, comfortable, supportive underwear. The right strapless bra will make all the difference
• DON’T worry if you have largish hips and things. A-line styles are a great disguise for chunky middle areas
• DO choose a dress with boning and have it adjusted until it fits you like a glove. You don’t want to be pulling it up or bulging over the top all day
• DON’T worry about your top slipping down all day long. Boning works wonders
• DO get an expertly-fitted bra
• DON’T dismiss patterned or embroidered bodices as a style that may suit. If you are going for a strapless dress, the detail can often be carried best on the bodice, otherwise you risk looking a bit bottom-heavy
• DO cover up for the ceremony or church service. Choose a dress with a matching bolero, shawl, stole or cape, to reveal the dress in its full glory later in the day
• DON’T overdo it with the jewellery, especially on the neck – clutter it up and people will be noticing your jewellery, not you or your dress
• DO be more adventurous with your hair. You could wear your hair down, or even consider extensions for a stunning mane which brushes your shoulders
• DON’T forget that you can still wear a veil – choose your style carefully so as to complement the dress, not clash with it

 

Wedding Corsets

Your wedding day is very special, your chance to wear something as romantic or as outrageous as you want. You want to look your best and what better way than to give yourself the wasp waist you have always dreamt of.
A corset accentuates your bust and hips and is particularly appropriate under a traditional wedding dress with a fitted bodice. Corsets can also be worn over a dress as a bodice or waist cincher, for the Snow White look.
If you want something out of the ordinary, a corset can be worn on its own with a skirt or even trousers for a stunning and unconventional look, and the back lacing will give the congregation and/or guests something to look at besides the back of head during the ceremony.
Planning Your Outfit
You need to choose your style well in advance, making sure that it works with your whole outfit. Before ordering a corset, get accurate measurements for your bust, waist and hips (your dressmaker, if you are using one, will help you, otherwise ask a friend). A corset will pull your waist in, but be realistic about how tightly you want to be pulled in all day and try it first.
Bear in mind your outline; it is probably best if you are wearing a corset underneath to go for a simple, undecorated style. If you fancy an Edwardian lacy boudoir number like either save it for the wedding night, or even better, buy two! (One for the wedding and one for afterwards).
If you have a bust larger than D cup, you should look at wearing a bra with an under bust style .
Make sure you try everything on together. Check the neckline and back of your outfit you don’t want underwear showing. Will you be wearing stockings or tights? If stockings, you’ll need suspenders (garters) to hold them up, and to decide how many check if the corset comes with suspenders and if you want more added.

 

How to measure for your dress

It’s important, if you take your own measurements and go by the designer’s size chart, that you measure properly. We can help in this area, but we cannot choose the size for you. Proper fit is subjective and individual, one person may like a dress tighter than another for example.

You will need to choose the size you feel most comfortable with, given your measurements. Remember, when choosing a size for a two-piece or separates, the waist and hip measurements need to be considered along with your bust, as tops are fitted through those areas as well. Remember also, every designer has its own size chart and normal dress size is not an indication here at all.

 

Remember also, gowns are not custom-made; therefore you need to order to fit the largest part of the body and take it in where it’s too large. If a dress is too small it could be a real problem; if it is too large a seamstress can usually alter it to fit. Sizes usually can not be changed once the order has been placed. The final choice for size is yours. The information below is intended to help you make the best choice.

 

How to Measure Bust

Measure at the widest part of the back, straight across the top of the bust, NOT under the bust line. The type of bra worn, or whether one is worn at all, can make a difference. Do NOT use your bra size (an a-cup is much different from a d-cup).

 

How to Measure Waist

Measure at your natural waistline. Holding stomach in would be a mistake, as would a skin-tight measurement. Leave a finger’s width under the tape so it can move.

 

How to Measure Hips

Measure at the largest part of the hip. The tips of your fingers should be the area to measure, when you rest your hands on your hips and put your thumbs at your natural waist. Only in the case of a straight skirt or when the hip is several sizes larger than the other measurements, will a hip measurement be necessary to determine size.

 

Extra Length

Most bridesmaid dresses offer extra length. Most factories suggest that you should consider ordering extra length if you are 5’8″ or taller with shoes on. Other factors are heel of shoe, hem height off floor, etc. Extra length is usually an additional 5″ of fabric added to the dress, and you will need to hem the dress to length desired in almost every case. Remember — if not sure, it’s better to have too much length and be able to shorten than to have a dress that’s too short and can’t be let out. Extra length charges will vary by designer; our size charts for each designer (at left) will give you more specific information and will list the cost for extra length.

 

Extra Size

Most designers charge for extra size on dresses size 18 and up. Extra size charges will vary by designer; our size charts for each designer, below will list the cost for extra size.

 

Ordering Separates

When ordering separates all 3 measurements must be considered.

 

Hollow to Hem (available on select wedding gowns only)

A hollow to hem measurement is available on select wedding gowns. If there is a specific style that you are wondering about we would need to check that style # in the information provided to us from the designer. A hollow to hem measurement should be taken while wearing any undergarments that you would wear the day of your wedding. This includes bra and crinoline (if any), as well as the correct shoe height. This special measurement is done when a gown is particularly tricky to shorten or when a bride prefers to order the gown in the correct length so that a hem is not necessary.

 

Note

If there is a way the gown can be shortened by a seamstress, that would be preferable than the bride doing her own hollow to hem measurements. There are two reasons for this: 1. there is always a little leeway in the cutting process which is standard in the industry, and 2. sometimes it’s not exactly like the bride wanted due to how well the measurement was done for the bride in the first place.

 

If on the other hand, there is no way the gown can be shortened by a seamstress, then here is a 3 Step Instruction for a Perfect Hollow-to-Hem Measurement.

 

Step One

Once the bride has put on the exact slip, crinoline, shoes, brassiere and all undergarments she will wear the day of the wedding, place the measuring tape 1/4″ below the hollow of the neck and measure to the waist, following the shape of the body.

 

Step Two

With the bride standing straight up and looking forward, measure from the waist to the finished hem, following the shape of the crinoline (approximately 1″ from the floor).

 

Step Three

Place the measuring tape 1/4″ below the hollow of the neck and measure to the finished hem. If this measurement does not equal the sum of the previous two measurements, repeat all three measurements.

 

*Note

Submit Hollow-to-Hem measurements in 1″ increments only (55″, 56″, etc.). If the actual hollow to hem measurement is in between a whole inch, order the next largest increment (i.e. If the measurement is 55 1/2″, order a 56″ Hollow-to-Hem).

 

Please be aware that sizing is not an exact science and alterations by an experienced seamstress will almost always be necessary for a proper fit.

 

Guide to Unique Wedding Gowns

Make a Statement by Thinking Outside the Ball Gown

 

 

With more and more similar wedding gowns on the scene, take the opportunity to make a statement by picking a unique gown for your big day.

 

In a time when many brides are picking cookie-cutter dresses and styles for their dresses, be a unique bride by distinguishing yourself with a special gown that reflects your personality. Try these tips to find something special.

Go Vintage

A great way to find something fun and whimsical is to go vintage. Try posting on Craigslist to find a great vintage gown, or shop at secondhand and vintage stores. You can always have something altered, so don’t worry too much about it being perfect just off the rack. A good tailor can even put a new bodice or new skirt or new fabric into a solid vintage gown.

Add Color

With a white gown as a blank canvas, one way to set yourself apart is to add punches of color. Try a brightly-colored sash around the waist, an inset panel or an overlay made from colored lace. You can even try a gown in a brighter color, instead of a plain white or tinted off-white. No one ever said you have to get married in a white dress — why not try a red one or a nice blue?

Go Shorter

The traditional wedding gown is floor-length, or longer with some of the trains found on today’s dresses. But if you’re getting married on the beach, or just in a more casual ceremony, why not reconsider the length? You’re only young once, and now is a great time to show off those gams. Try tea-length dresses or even an A-line knee length dress. It’s still possible to dress very formally in a shorter dress than a traditional wedding gown.

Don’t Shop in Bridal Shops

Another strategy to finding a unique dress is to shop in places where all the other brides aren’t shopping. There are many white dresses available at other shops. J. Crew has a great selection of white dresses that are stylish and would be perfect for a more casual wedding or an indie affair.

 

Go Custom

The worth of a great tailor is incredible, and if you have a strong sense of what you like, having a custom gown made for you is a very stylish option. This way, you can be in charge of the fabric, the fit and the style. The result will be a dress that fits you perfectly and fits your personality and style.

Add Accessories

Even if your dress is very plain, you can make it completely your own through the use of accessories. You can layer on a collection of pearl necklaces, adorn your hair and your dress with fresh, brightly-colored flowers or wrap ribbons around your hair and waist.

No matter what your style, there is a unique dress and accessory combination that will make your look as a bride uniquely you.

 

Making Your Wedding Dress Unique

Ideas to Consider for a Distinctive Wedding Gown

 

If you are thinking of customizing your wedding gown, consider every aspect to get a dress that is truly you.

 

You only get one chance at a wedding dress (hopefully) so you want it to be something truly incredible. More and more brides are customizing their gowns. So before you decide on a dress, take into account each aspect of the dress and determine what you really would like it to be. Here are some ideas to consider.

Waistband

Maybe you want to put all the emphasis to be on the waistband of the dress, such as a high jeweled cummerbund or a basket weave sash of chiffon, particularly if this is your best body feature.

Dress Sleeves

Think about having the sleeves in a different material than the rest of the dress. You could use lace, netting, chiffon, or even crochet. Also consider the type of sleeve – ruffled cap, blouson (widens towards the bottom and then cuffs), ruched bell (pleated at the armhole and then gradually widening), banded puff, bubble, kimono, dolman (wide at the arm hole and then narrows at the wrist), illusion (basically transparent) and shuttle (narrow at the armhole, then widens substantially and then cuffs at the wrist) are all interesting ones.

Back of Gown

The back of your dress is what your guests will see when you are taking your vows. Make it something special with a single ruffle going down the back center of the skirt, a laced up bodice, or maybe the skirt just cinched up in many layers in the back to create a puffy skirt effect.

Skirt

If you are quite adventurous with your dress, why not do something really unusual with the skirt. What about a skirt made of velvet, sequins, fake fur, or even white feathers?

 

Underskirt

You could do something unique with the underskirt of the dress. You could have a layer of tulle peaking out from underneath, maybe even in a different color such as the color of your bridesmaids’ dresses. See over 30 colors of tulle. You could also attach some silver trim along the bottom of your gown for a winter wedding.

Dress Train

Your train is also an area to consider. Maybe you don’t want one. Or maybe you want a separate train that flows from the waist or the shoulders and can be removed for the reception. It doesn’t have to be wide and heavy, it could be a more lightweight material like tulle. It could also be in a different color to add distinction.

Gown Color

Consider making your wedding dress a combination of two colors. For example the bodice could be a champagne color and the skirt could be ivory. This is actually a good option if this is your second wedding and you are not comfortable wearing a totally white dress.

Dress Embellishments

Take into account the type of jewels and embellishments you want on your dress. It can make all the difference on a plain dress. You could add small topaz colored jewels for a fall wedding or red rubies for a Christmas wedding. The embellishments can go along the neckline, on the skirt, or at the edge of the sleeves.

Crewel is a nice embellishment for a winter dress. Crewel is embroidery using thicker materials such as chenille. It gives your dress more dimension. Pearls are a favorite but you can always try something new by using freshwater pearls or softly colored pearls in pinks and lavenders. Swarovski crystals are also becoming popular to use to embellish wedding gowns. You will find some inspiring ideas for embellishments at MJ Trim.

 

Wedding Photography: 14 Tips for Perfect Photos

Don’t be camera-shy. Here’s everything you need to get started.

 

Call the Shots

Ask recently married friends about the number of pictures their photographer took (how many proofs they got) and whether that number was sufficient, so you’ll have a frame of reference when you talk to your photographer. A photographer shoots about 500 exposures at an average wedding (including the ceremony and a four-hour reception).

 

See an Actual Album

Look at pictures the photographer shot at a previous wedding to see if he connected with the couple and captured the mood of their day. If possible, ask to see a proof book — the shots the photographer took before the couple chose which ones they wanted. This is his work in the raw. Check out weddings that were shot in similar settings or at a similar time of day for the best comparison.

 

Beware the Bait and Switch

Some contracts spell out the studio’s right to send any staff photographers to your wedding — don’t sign if that’s not okay with you. Some also reserve the exclusive right to photograph your wedding, leaving Uncle John and his camera out in the cold. Read your contract carefully.

 

A Tip on Tipping

Know this: It’s totally optional. Established photographers will not expect a tip, especially when their fees will be among the highest in the wedding budget. That said, a monetary thank you is always graciously received, especially if your photographer is a subcontractor or freelancer (that is, she doesn’t own the studio). Estimate $20 to $25 (think cab fare home, or the cost of grabbing a nightcap after a hard day’s work).

 

Hot Shot

Our current favorite candid photo: the moment right after the ceremony ends, when the smiles are most genuine.

 

Don’t Underestimate

You may think you don’t need many pictures for your album, but chances are that once you see the proofs, you’ll want more than you thought you did (especially if you’ve hired a spectacular shutterbug). Err on the side of too many proofs.

 

Negatives are Positive

Most professional photographers keep their own negatives — you’ll get the best-quality prints and negatives will be properly stored. Ensure that your photographer keeps your negatives on file according to her policy; you may be able to buy them after a certain period of time.

 

Share the Wealth

Ask your photographer whether guests can order prints. You can email guests a link to your online album, and they can order prints directly, without having to go through you.

 

Order Your Own Album

Albums can get incredibly pricey; you might decide to buy and create your own instead of working with your photographer’s wares. Be careful not to put your pictures in cheap albums that may damage them over time. Look for archival or acid-free on the label.

 

Rain, Rain Go Away

Don’t let the weather ruin your wedding day — use it to your advantage! If it rains, grab two big umbrellas, go outside, and shoot pictures in the rain. Black-and-white shots of a couple kissing under one umbrella with delicate raindrops creating puddles at their feet are very romantic. Plan ahead and have classic black oversized umbrellas on hand.

 

Black-and-white Benefit

Plain and simple, black-and-white photography is preferred for documenting emotional moments. The fewer colors your eyes have to process, the cleaner and easier an image is to absorb when viewing. The result? The subject shines through!

 

A Behind-the-scene Queen

Choose a photo pro who you feel extremely comfortable with and don’t mind inviting backstage. Some of the most beautiful wedding moments happen while the bride is dressing, while the family is waiting for the ceremony to begin, or during the reception when the couple steals away for a kiss. Keep your photographer aware of your whereabouts at (almost) all times.

 

Pick a Perfect Package

Some photography packages include parent albums, but many don’t. Translation? You’ll pay an additional fee later. Talk about each package’s perks and try to create a custom menu of items — for instance, some photographers will shoot engagement photos for free if you put a deposit down on wedding day services.

 

Must-haves

Don’t overwhelm your photographer with must-take shots. Instead, create a wish list of your top 10.

 

Wedding Videography: 4 Hot Wedding Videography Trends

Photo: Marcin Harla Photography

Indie Documentaries

While the technological side of wedding videography has come a long way over the last few years, the advances in style have been just as impressive. A growing number of filmmakers have applied their skills to wedding videography, with the finished product reflecting the quality of an independent film. The idea isn’t just to tell the story of your wedding day, but to portray the characters — the conversations, reactions, and moods — in hopes of giving the viewer a sense of the wedding beyond the typical footage. When creating a film with this style, videographers spend more time in the editing room (which, in turn, means the process is likely more costly), but the payoff is in the product: A wedding video even your friends will want to watch again.

The 3-D Photo Montage Show

This concept has become widely available in wedding photography packages. Still images, which are generally taken before the wedding day, are digitally manipulated to appear three-dimensional—special effects and music can be added as well. The finished product is a movie that can be played throughout your reception and will become a one-of-a-kind keepsake. Because this technique requires a significant amount of editing time, couples tend to use pictures taken throughout their lives, not shots from the actual ceremony. «They’re popular to play on the wedding day for an extra wow factor,» says Adam Forgione, owner of Pennylane Productions in Commack, New York. «Keep in mind that it requires many hours of editing and, because of that, it can be more expensive.» That said, if you’re looking for a bit of entertainment that will awe your wedding guests, this could prove to be well worth the money.

Wedding Trailers

This intentionally dramatic spin on the typical highlight reel serves as a preview of your wedding video. Picture a roaring epic movie score, special editing effects, and maybe a voiceover. «The trailer is usually done a few weeks after the wedding,» says Forgione. «It has a more intense style than a highlight reel, and it’s designed to make you want to see more.» Think of it as a teaser to show family and friends while waiting for your full-length video. Every videographer’s style is different, but the idea is to share a glimpse of some emotional moments without giving them away. (Visualize your lips almost touching, then a fade to black.)»After the wedding, if the bride and groom want to show off their trailer, they can create a link online to send to friends and family or put on their thank-you cards,» says Forgione.

Trash the Dress

The wedding is over and now you have a gown you’ll likely never wear again hanging in your closet. Giving it to a local charity that supports low-income brides is a wonderful gesture, but if you’ve been dying to let off some of the steam that built up in the planning stages, consider a «Trash the Dress» video. Brides jump in a puddle of mud, let kids put their sticky little hands all over it, or rip it to shreds with their friends—this video is all about having fun. While it’s not a necessary piece of wedding memorabilia, it could be one of your favorite keepsakes.

 

 

Wedding Photography: 9 Hot Wedding Photo Trends

Here’s the latest in wedding photography and how to make it work for you.

A wedding photo is meant to preserve your fabulous day for the rest of your life — it’s not just your new profile pic on Facebook after all! But nuptial shots can look stiff and boring if you’re not careful — or worse, just like everyone else’s. How can you make them unique? Here are new photography ideas that’ll take you from pre- to post- «I do.»

 

Before the Reception…

 

1. Become the Center of Attention

Instead of flowers, fill photo cubes with different shots from your dating history or world travels and then use them as table centerpieces. It’s a great conversation-starter and a nice way for guests to learn more about the early stages of your relationship. And unlike fresh blooms, you can decorate your home with these afterward.

 

2. Be the Favors

Have your photo imprinted on cookies and leave one at each place setting. Opt for a black-and-white, vintage-looking image so it doesn’t come out cheesy. Wrap the cookie in wax paper and tie with a ribbon. Then let guests eat their hearts out — and your faces off!

3. Head to the City

Engagement cityscape shoots are popular because of the iconic quality of posing by recognizable landmarks. No skyline? Shooting against an urban brick wall can convey the same message. Use your favorite image in your save-the-dates or, for instant reception decor, blow up one of the pictures, mat it, and set it on an easel near the escort cards. Display other shots in your table cards.

 

During the Reception…

 

4. Ditch the Formality

Try some casual shots, like the bride sitting on a staircase right after the ceremony, breathing a sigh of relief, with champagne at her feet. Or consider finding an «unofficial» setting. If your reception is at a country club, take pics on the golf course. Ask your photographer to get candids of your group making their way there. It’s those between-the-moments photos that always turn out best.

5. Go Behind the Curtain

Rent a photo booth and a technician to troubleshoot. Have guests tape wacky shots next to their messages in the guest book. Or create a DIY photo studio in a section of the reception room. Hang a nine-foot-wide seamless paper for a backdrop and bring a printer so guests can take photos home.

6. Let it Slide

Run a slideshow of images from the ceremony and cocktail hour from your photographer’s laptop and project them on a screen during dinner. Guests will love looking at what they just experienced, and they’ll have plenty to talk about at the tables.

 

After the Reception…

 

7. Go Digital

Instead of mounting a few photos on a wall in traditional frames, display a bunch in a single digital frame. Upload multiple images from a memory card or your computer and watch a slideshow of your day. You can even add music. It makes a great gift too.

8. Book ‘Em

Skip the traditional album (the one with thick-as-cardboard, single-photo pages) in favor of high-quality coffee table books, like AsukaBooks. The images are printed on paper, and the layout is more like what you’d see in a magazine. Opt for a leather-bound or Lucite-covered book for a classic look that’s less stuffy than a traditional album.

9. Learn to Preserve

Enlarging some final prints on museum-quality, fiber-based, silver paper will definitely be worth the purchase down the road when your precious memories are still intact. «A photograph on this paper could last for several hundred years,» says Jen Kroll, a photographer in Grand Rapids, Michigan. When archiving your photos and negatives, choose acid-free boxes, negative-sleeves, and binders. They’re pricey, but the absence of acid prevents your photos from yellowing or deteriorating.

 

Wedding Transportation: 10 Great Wedding Transportation Tips

Before you jump in and take off, we’ve got 10 tips to make any postwedding getaway a great escape. Ladies and gentlemen, start your engines…

Photo: Pettit Photography

1. Don’t limit yourself.

Okay, let’s say you’re the traditional types who just can’t bear the thought of speeding off in anything that doesn’t come with a mini-bar — your local limousine service has the souped-up options to roll away in that you’re looking for. Test-drive everything from the classic white Rolls-Royce (seats 2) to the stretch SUV (seats 22) to the super-luxe limo-bus (seats dozens). And while we’re breaking the rules, who says your getaway vehicle has to be white? A shiny, black limo offers the high-society, I’m-with-the-President look.

2. Go all the way.

Many transportation companies offer more than just the wheels and will pull out all the royal stops for you and your groom, what they call the «wedding package.» Often you can find the «red-carpet treatment» where the driver literally rolls out a red carpet (that’s right!) to the door. You can also request that your favorite romantic comedy or your make-out CD be cued up in the car’s entertainment center. And many companies will stock the vehicle with chilled champagne and caviar. But just when you think you’ve hit the ceiling of ultimate luxury, you can ask for one more thing…the horn that toots «Here Comes the Bride.» Now that’s class.

3. Keep an open mind.

Where in the bridal rulebook does it say that you have to leave your reception in a limo? (How many times do we have to tell you to throw that old book away?) We can think of scads of other options that’ll zip you off in style. You can go for something with personality — a VW Microbus (think Haight-Ashbury and free love, baby!); a Harley-Davidson with sidecar (straddling anything in a gown is just plain tacky); or an old-school trolley (it’s not just a San Francisco treat). Or slip into something a little more Beverly Hills — a cherry-red Lamborghini, a jet-black Camaro SS, or a silver BMW Z3 roadster.

4. Save in sneaky ways.

The great thing about wedding-day transportation is that it’s the part of planning where you can save the most, and still ride in ultra-posh style. For example, think about a one-trip wonder. If you’re making a grand entrance, rent a vehicle for the arrival (and drive your own wheels home). On a similar note, if you’re going to take off with the whole party watching, best to get a fancy mobile for the farewell. Pinch pennies by signing up for an hourly rate, rather than an entire evening. That way, you’ll pay for the car and driver combo only when it’s being used — and not when it’s sitting idly in the parking lot of the reception.

5. Know the owner.

Although it might not seem like a big deal, it’s a good idea to know who actually owns the vehicle you’re renting. If the transportation company you’re dealing with doesn’t have the car you’re looking for, they’ll often «borrow» a car from another vendor (and basically pay them a rental fee). Here’s where it gets sticky — since you’re one more middleman away from the wedding car of your dreams, you leave the door open for lateness or, even worse, a no-show. If you have your heart set on a particular car, you’ll be better off finding a vendor that actually owns the one you’ve got in mind.

6. Express yourself.

You needn’t feel limited to automobiles — period. For example, a horse-drawn carriage has become the option of those brides looking for an all-out Cinderella experience (a bit much, we think, but to each her own). We’re talking about a little self-propelled action: with one of you sporting «Just» and the other «Married» signs on your backs, hop into a pair of in-line skates or onto a scooter, or peddle away on a bicycle built for two.

7. Add variety.

Why be a one-car couple? In just one wedding day, you’ve got so many chances to get folks (and yourself) all revved up. If you can’t decide between the stretch Hummer and little green Beetle, choose one for the way to the wedding and one for the way home. Don’t think that you have to get the same type of car for everyone in the wedding party — maybe indulge your attendants in some 4-wheel-drive action, but have Mom and Dad roll up in a sweet midnight-blue Porche. Show off more than just one set of hot wheels.

8. Spread the wealth.

While you’re maxing and relaxing in all-out style, let your guests in on some of the transportation fun. A luxury bus (seats 50-75) has become a popular — not to mention a super-safe — way to transport family and friends (no drinking-and-driving worries, no guests lost between the ceremony and reception). And what’s a wedding vehicle without a sign? Equip your party bus with an announcement along both sides: «We just watched Jen & Andy tie the knot!»

9. Get a contract.

We never tire of saying it: Don’t even think about hiring your transportation vendor without getting everything in writing. And we mean everything: arrival time (pad an extra 20 minutes for safety’s sake); reception departure time; addresses to and from where you’re going; the size, color, and model of the car (with the license-plate number if you’ve chosen something specific); the name of the driver you want; gratuity; plus any special requests that you have. You’ll have peace of mind — and a piece of paper — to ensure it all goes smoothly.

10. Stock the car.

When the party is over the real party will just begin, so make sure you’ve got the supplies. Enlist a bridesmaid to pack up a small after-the-festivities package for the two of you to indulge in as you make your getaway. Include something to eat because — trust us — you’ll be hungry (the more protein, the more energy you’ll have for after-hours activities); something to drink (water, soda); a comfy blanket (for snuggling); and something protective to slip on. Ahem…we were talking about slippers.

after the honeymoon

When you arrive home after the honeymoon, consider ordering a limo — or specialty vehicle — to pick you up at the airport. While you’re at it, hang a banner on the back that reads, «Just Honeymooned!» to get that full we’re-fabulous-newlyweds feeling.

 

Wedding Flowers: 6 New Wedding Flower Trends

Looking for a glamorous bouquet to carry down the aisle? Take your pick from the latest looks and trends.

No matter how stunning your gown may be, your wedding day look won’t be complete without the perfect bouquet to complement it. To assist you in selecting the right set of blooms for your journey to the altar, we asked the experts in floral design to dish on the latest trends. What did we discover? There are two distinct styles for wedding bouquets, and each are heading down a completely different path. While many brides want their blooms to have a spare, elegant look, others are choosing to carry lush, romantic arrangements down the aisle. What’s more, while round, clustered bouquets are still immensely popular, the long and cascading look is on the rise. For this must-have wedding day accessory, check out our roundup of the most chic bouquet styles and ideas.

 

1. Sought-After Blossoms

Today’s hot bouquets fall into two categories. Many brides are going for the simplicity of a «monofloral» (all one flower) look. Monofloral bouquets coordinate quite well with contemporary or architectural gowns, so they’re often composed of sleek, structured flowers like mini calla lilies or cattleya orchids. However, the most prominent trend is romantic bouquets filled with an assortment of fluttery flowers with lots of petals — think peonies, ranunculuses, French tulips, and hydrangeas. Although it’s not yet widely used, one contender for the next in-demand bloom is the Yves Piaget rose. It’s a sumptuous flower that’s a profusion of petals, tying in perfectly with the lush bouquet trend.

 

 

2. All Tied Up

Although the most au naturel brides (and, in particular, those seeking a single-flower style) likely prefer the look of exposed stems, the majority of today’s bouquets come elegantly wrapped. To help modernize the look of classic ribbon-wrapped stems, florists layer ribbons in different colors or textures. Another popular approach is to personalize the bouquet. Wrap the stems with an heirloom handkerchief (perhaps one the bride’s grandmother carried on her wedding day), adorn the bouquet with a locket bearing a photo of a deceased relative, or wrap the stems in a ribbon embroidered with your monogram or signature motif.

 

3. Hot Hues

White bouquets transcend wedding trends, but brides are using an increasingly popular version of this classic. It features multiple shades of white to create a gradational, textured look that’s more soft and antique than modern and stark. Brides craving color are also opting to use many shades of a single hue, such as mixing pale pink peonies and hot pink ranunculuses with other flowers that reflect the pinks for a richer look. For those who like this look but want something more striking than white, today’s stylish all-red bouquets mix shades of burgundy and near-black with slightly brighter crimson blooms.

 

 

4. A Modernized Cascade

Round bouquets still rule. The clean shape keeps the focus on the dress, and brides are wary of the dated ’80s look of a larger bouquet. That said, some creative brides are choosing bouquets that cascade slightly down the front with an «upside-down teardrop» shape. The bit of movement created by this detail adds a touch of drama that feels thoroughly up-to-date.

 

5. Mixed Media

Today’s bouquets often contain much more than flowers. For instance, florists add texture with greenery (such as fuzzy lamb’s ear) and create contrast with striped leaves (such as aspidistra and hosta). Innovative brides are asking for nonfloral elements like feathers, berries, Swarovski crystals, and even mini branches or pieces of wood. Succulents are also becoming more prevalent. One prized type is echivera, which is shaped like a flower and comes in gray, green, and aubergine. The purple-toned variety looks striking with purple-tipped calla lilies, and those with a red or orange tinge work well with orange ranunculuses and reddish-orange freesias.

 

6. Special Effects

Weddings are made memorable through elements like exotic locations and designer stationery, so why skimp on the bouquet? If you want a cutting-edge effect that makes a striking floral style statement, explore this growing trend: entire bouquets expertly designed to give the appearance of being a single flower. By wiring individual flower petals together, florists create what appears to be one super-sized bloom (think white rose petals arranged in the shape of a huge white rose). Guests will remember it long after the ceremony is over.

 

Find the Perfect Luxury Hotel For Your Wedding

 

Any newlywed or bride to be will tell you that when planning a wedding, the first thing you do is book the reception venue. There are many beautiful luxury hotels to choose from, but waiting lists can still be long so it’s best to start looking early to avoid disappointment.

After the excitement of your engagement settles down, thoughts will turn to the venue — maybe you want to eat, drink and dance your wedding day away at a luxury hotel near to your home, or maybe you want to go further afield. There are a number of key decisions to make — how many guests will you need to cater for, do you need a hotel with a chapel or are you getting married in a church and if you are is the church close enough to be practical? These are just some of the questions you need to ask yourself before you start looking for your perfect hotel venue.

Deluxe Hotel Weddings

You wedding day is one of the most important days of your life, and no matter how much your husband to be moans about how many reception venues you are dragging him around, it’s important to be sure you are picking the correct deluxe hotel for your day. Make sure you book an appointment with the wedding coordinator who will take you on a guided tour of the premises — most luxury hotels have a dedicated wedding planner on hand to help you with the arrangements — don’t just assume you can turn up and look around. Try to book an appointment for a Friday or a Saturday when the hotel is likely to be setting up for a wedding, as you can see how it is likely to look for your wedding day.

You may walk into a luxurious hotel and fall in love with it straight away, but make sure you keep your practical head on before your heart runs off with the decision. Ask to see the honeymoon suite if you plan on staying at the hotel the night of the wedding, and if you can, negotiate a tasting session into the package — even the most opulent hotel may not serve exactly the cuisine you are looking for and it’s vital to taste the wine you will be offering your guests.

Book Your Venue With Confidence

It’s all too easy to panic and jump in feet first when booking your wedding venue, as you hear stories of brides having to wait years to get that perfect mid-summers day. However, with so many luxury hotels to choose from it’s definitely worth taking some time to visit as many as possible. You will look back on the photo’s in years to come and be grateful you researched and found the perfect venue.

 

HOW DO YOU SELECT A HOTEL FOR YOUR RECEPTION?

 

If you’ve decided to hold your wedding reception in a hotel ballroom, find the right match by keeping the following things in mind.

 

SCHEDULING

Find out how many receptions a day your location holds and whether you’ll be hurried out after your allotted time is over. You don’t want to be hit with exorbitant fees if your reception runs long. Also, don’t forget that you’ll need a minimum of two hours to set up, so if there’s a lunch scheduled before your dinner reception, make sure you have enough time to get everything perfect before your guests arrive.

 

SPACE

Think about your wedding moments — the first dance, the wedding cake cutting, etc. — and make sure there’s sufficient and appropriate space for them. A room that fits 300 for cocktails will probably not be big enough for a sit-down dinner and dancing.

 

CATERING

It’s likely there’ll be an in-house caterer or list of preferred caterers you must use, so double check that the kitchen is equipped to prepare any special menu items you may want or need.

 

PARKING

Find out if you can pay for valet and gratuities for your guests ahead of time. And don’t forget to check out the parking situation for your vendors — you might need to pay a parking lot fee.

 

 

DECORATING

Some hotels have decor restrictions. Find out if you can rearrange furniture to your specifications and ask if they have pictures from previous receptions for inspiring ideas.

 

OUTSIDE INFLUENCES

If there’s a special vintage wine you want to serve at your reception or you’re desperate for a wedding cake that your location’s pastry chef doesn’t have experience making, you may be able to bring in outside vendors. Check out your location’s policies and be sure to find out about any corkage or cake-cutting fees.

 

Wedding Night Gift Baskets

 

Wedding night gift baskets can be a fun and thoughtful way to offer good wishes and congratulations to the newlywed couple, but assembling such baskets must be done with care to ensure they are tasteful and appropriate.

 

About the Wedding Night

There are many romantic illusions about the wedding night, the first time the happy couple shares a bed as husband and wife. In reality, however, many couples face their wedding night with delighted exhaustion after the weeks or months of planning and the hefty excitement of a hectic wedding day. From early morning appointments for hair styles and makeup to last minute emergencies, hours of dancing, and speaking with dozens or hundreds of guests, the best wedding night gifts lead to a good night’s sleep as well as encourage quiet, peaceful moments for the couple to share as they begin their life together.

 

Ideas for Wedding Night Gift Baskets

 

here are many different items that can be included in wedding gift baskets for the couple to enjoy on their wedding night. Some items may be meant for quiet relaxation, while others can help the couple celebrate their nuptials privately, often for the first time that day after entertaining their family members, friends, and other guests.

Popular wedding night gifts include:

• A thoughtful card of congratulations and best wishes
• Pampering products such as bubble bath, bath salts, body lotion, or a small massager
• Light snacks such as fruit, bread, cheese, chocolates, or other treats because the couple may have been too excited, nervous, or busy to eat much during the day
• His and hers luxury bathrobes or towels

 

Cheers to marriage!

• A bottle of wine or champagne with a pair of toasting flutes
• Tasteful intimate items such as lotions to share, a book of couples’ massage techniques or a piece of seductive lingerie
• Scented candles
• Signed notes from wedding guests – these notes can be discreetly collected at the wedding reception and slipped into the gift basket before it is delivered
• Instant photos of the wedding – the couple may not see their professional wedding pictures for several weeks, and seeing a few snapshots from earlier in the festivities will help them enjoy their newlywed status immediately
• A “Do Not Disturb” door hanger decorated with wedding symbolism or wedding clipart
• ”Just Married” novelty items such as t-shirts or hats
• Flowers that match the wedding decorations to coordinate with the day’s theme
• Useful honeymoon items, such as a snorkel, suntan lotion, and sunglasses for a tropical honeymoon or dinner certificates, a gas card, or other practical items for a more local getaway
• A photo frame with their engagement picture, perhaps with room to add a favorite wedding photo

 

Do Not Disturb

A Note About Naughtiness

The temptation to add “naughty” gifts with crude sexual connotations to wedding night gift baskets can be strong, but it can also be inappropriate. First, consider the temperaments and personalities of the couple before including any racier gifts, and also consider who is assembling the basket. While a couple may enjoy experimenting with edible body frosting or other novelties, the idea can lose its appeal if the gift basket is from one’s parents.

Creating the Gift Basket

Simple wicker baskets are easy to fill, decorate, and deliver to a honeymoon suite. Wrap the basket in tulle with ribbon that coordinates with the wedding colors for a matching look, or choose a type of basket that coordinates with the wedding theme. A bright plastic bucket, for example, can be a fun gift basket for a beach wedding, or a tin pail may be suitable for a more rustic celebration.

After the gifts are arranged in the basket, it may be necessary to enlist aid in order to deliver it. If possible, hotel staff will be willing to deliver the basket to the honeymoon suite before the reception festivities end so the couple can find it when they retire to their room at the end of the celebration. If that is not possible, however, the basket could be placed in the limousine or other wedding vehicle, or it may be delivered to the couple’s hotel, home, or other location after the evening has ended.

Other Romantic Wedding Night Touches

Adding other romantic touches to the presentation of a gift basket can make the gift more meaningful and the evening even more memorable. Ideas include:

• Fresh flowers in the hotel room
• Rose petals scattered on the bed
• Lit scented candles for romantic lighting
• Romantic music playing softly in the room
• Towel swans on the bed
• Champagne on ice awaiting the couple

The key to adding romance to the wedding night is to keep those few hours after the celebration very private, both in terms of what is included in the gift basket as well as how it is presented. Discretion is critical and will help the couple relax and enjoy their new status as husband and wife.

 

Wedding night gift baskets can be a fun and romantic gift for the newlywed couple to enjoy. From pampering gifts to intimate indulgences to honeymoon-themed items, there are many options for creating a tasteful and thoughtful gift a couple can enjoy in their first few hours of being husband and wife.

 

Do You Need a Coordinator?

We’re not going to tell you the answer to that because we can’t. Only you know if you need one or not. Will you be getting help from others around you, your mother, bridesmaids, fiancé, friends or will you have to do it all by yourself. Can you do it by yourself? Do you want to plan your wedding by yourself? Only you know.

What Can a Wedding Coordinator Do For Me?

The list is long but here are a few of the duties you can expect:

• Help you to create the type of wedding you want. With that knowledge you’ll be able to pick your venue, vendors, colour scheme, theme, music, etc.
• Help you create a budget sheet and keep track of where your money is going and how much is still owing.
• Help keep you on your budget and not go over…too much!!
• Suggest vendors that fit your budget and ideas.
• Make a wedding planning schedule so that you know what you’ve done and what still needs to be done.
• In most cases a coordinator can save you money because of their connection in the industry.
• Take care of any emergencies that arise.
• Create a wedding day schedule.

How Do I Find a Good Wedding Coordinator?

As with all other wedding vendors, word of mouth is always good, bridal shows or ask other wedding vendors about coordinators that they’ve seen at other weddings. Call first and see if you like them over the phone. If you don’t then don’t bother wasting time with the appointment.

• A professional wedding coordinator will have taken a wedding coordinator /consultant /planner course and have a diploma to show for it.
• Call the organization on the certificate to make sure that it existsl.
• Is the coordinator organized?
• Do you feel comfortable with them?
• Are they friendly?
• Do they know their stuff?
• Does they have any references?
• How long have they been in business?
• Are they within your budget?
• Are they computer literate?
• Do they have another job or do they coordinate full time? It’s not necessary for your coordinator to only work at planning weddings but it is better because they will have to contact your vendors during business hours.

If you like them and the answers you get, great…if not go elsewhere. Make appointments to meet at least 2 coordinators. Never choose the first vendor you meet, you need to compare.

What Type of Packages
Do Wedding Coordinators Have?

Consultation only: This is like a mini wedding planning course, best taken at the beginning of your planning. The coordinator won’t be at your wedding but will teach you the skills to planning your own day. Some will charge by the hour, others by the meeting. You can book one meeting only or go back as many times as you like.

Planning Preparation: Along with consultation they will save you time by listening to your needs and booking appointments for you with vendors, that meet those needs.

• They contact these vendors and describe what you want, what your budget is, if they’re available on your date. This way the vendors already know about you when you walk in the door.
• They will help you put together a wedding binder, making it easier to keep track of things.
• They will make a floor plan for the vendors and a wedding day schedule.

Full Wedding Day Package: A coordinator can be hired for the wedding day alone. She will direct the events of the day and make sure everyone around you is doing their job. Should any emergencies happen she will take care of them. Although a coordinator is hired for one days work, in actual fact they have been working on your wedding, anywhere from 30-50 hours before the day actually get there, getting prepared. You should meet with the coordinator at least once if not twice to go over the details of your wedding. Any coordinator that says no meeting are needed isn’t a professional.

What Does a Coordinator Charge?

Wedding coordinators can charge 3 different ways and you will have to ask your’s how they work out their prices:

• by a percentage of the total cost of your wedding,
• by the hour; or
• a flat fee.

What Questions Should I Ask
When I Meet a Coordinator?

• How long have you been a wedding coordinator?
• What coordinating organization do you belong to and do you have a diploma?
• How do you charge? (percentage, flat fee, hourly)
• How much will you charge us for the services we need?
• How many times will we meet and how long will each meeting last?
• Will you meet with our vendors and look over their contracts?
• Are you computer literate and do you own a computer?
• Do you have a backup in case of emergency and can’t make our wedding and who are they?
• Will you be at our rehearsal and is there an extra charge for this?
• How will you be dressed?
• Can you help plan a wedding within our budget?
• Are you a registered business?
• Have you worked at our venue before?
• Have you worked with our vendors before?
• Will you contact our vendors before the wedding?
• Is there an extra charge for phonecalls and e-mail correspondence between us?
• Do you have a preferred vendors list?
• If our officiant can’t make it, will you direct our rehearsal?
• Can you handle last minute changes and emergencies?
• What is the deposit requirement?
• If we cancel our contract, will we get all or any of our deposit back?
• What time do you arrive on the wedding day and what time do you leave?
• If we give you the payments for our other vendors, will you pay them?
• Are you discreet or are you like Martin Short from the movie «Father of the Bride»?

Coordinator’s Contract

If you are only going to see a consultant for planning lessons then you will probably just get a bill. It is impossible to have all details on a coordinator’s contract, for the simple fact that they are dealing will all aspects of your wedding day and have many duties.

The contract should at least have the following:

• How the coordinator charges (percentage, flat fee, hourly).
• How many meetings will there be and if the consultant will visit vendors with you.
• A service description.
• The total cost of their services.
• Your contact information.
• Your wedding date.
• Your’s and their signature.
• The amount deposited and still owing, and the due date for last payment.
• Cancellation policy (if you cancel).

No show policy for the consultant.

 

Bridal Jewelry stlyle for 2009

Just as trends change for casual wear, evening wear and sportswear, bridal style and the jewelry that goes with it is constantly evolving and creating fabulous new pieces that are wearable art, to help you look and feel like a princess from head to toe. Here we take a look at some of 2009’s hottest styles:

 

Vintage – The antique or art deco look is really hot right now. With symmetrical link bracelets, necklaces or jewelry sets, this romantic tribute looks sensational when paired with a lace dress or ivory colored gown. Big and bold pieces are all the rage right now, and it’s easy to find affordable and elegant choices in costume jewelry. Another vintage trend is pearls in scroll settings. This retro take on a bridal classic is sure to look lovely on you and your bridal party.

 

Crystals – Though CZ rhinestones have long been a bridal favorite, Swarovksi crystal jewelry is a less expensive and equally stunning alternative. These pieces are available in classic or contemporary styles and in clear or colored stones to go with just about any dress that you have selected. Crystal jewelry is lightweight and a perfect alternative this season.

 

Colored stones – It might have something to do with celebs rocking colored engagement rings in pink, yellow, and even black, but colored bridal party jewelry has really taken off this year. Stones that coordinate with the bridesmaid dresses are popular, while brides are throwing in a bit of color to match the bridesmaids and bouquets. Popular jewelry colors include hot pink, red and lilac stones. Even throwing in a splash of blue or green is acceptable. It’s about showing a look that is pulled together and pretty, for all the photos that will be taken.

 

As you can see, long gone are the days when bridal jewelry consisted of a single strand pearl necklace. Now, it’s about bringing the style and glamour to the wedding party with bold colorful pieces that will make an impact.

 

Bridal Jewelry Tips For The Young Bride

 

One of the most exciting days for a young girl is her wedding day. It is real fun to plan the outfit, jewelry and accessories that a bride wants to flaunt on her D-day. However, everything will go wrong if you don’t mix and match your bridal jewelry.

 

Wedding Band

 

The most important jewelry for a bride on her wedding day is the ‘Wedding Band’. If you want to wear other rings then you can certainly do that. However, you should be careful enough to ensure that the other rings do not overpower the significance of your wedding band., so wear rings that are classic and elegant.

 

Match it up with your gown

 

Once you have decided on your wedding band and the other rings that go along with it, its time to choose other pieces of jewelry. The other pieces should add to your overall look. Whatever you choose, be sure that it is coordinated with your gown. A white gown and a brown purse are a complete no-no. Again, an accessory that will overpower the look of the wedding dress should also be avoided.

 

Your skin tone and hair color

 

Your skin tone and hair color should also play an important role while choosing the jewelry for your wedding day. Try to keep things simple and balanced. Red hair and blue shoes on a white gown would look awful. Again, white shoes with all crystals would diminish the look of the gown. So, you need to strike a balance and put more emphasis upon the wedding band — the sign of marriage, and the wedding gown — probably your best dress ever.

 

Maintain a standard

 

In an effort to keep it simple you should not underplay things. However, the opposite is also applicable. For your wedding jewelry you should choose something that looks good all the time. Pearls are said to be classics and go along with all types of dresses that you can wear on your wedding day. They are classic and simple at the same time.

 

Time Factor

 

The time or the part of the day when you are getting married also plays an important role in deciding on your wedding jewelry. If you are getting married during the day, then it is better not to adorn jewelry that is too flashy. However, if you are getting married at night then you can add stunning effects to your overall getup by adding some flashy pieces of jewelry. But again, you should not overdo things and always keep in mind, that it is your wedding band that is the most important piece of jewelry on that day.

 

Diamonds are forever

 

If after all these tips you are still confused, then you can safely choose diamonds and different pieces of jewelry for yourself. Diamonds add glamour to your look and are classy as well. If that doesn’t suit you, then you can opt for jewelry that is made up of Swarovski Crystals. Crystals in different colors are used nowadays to create bridal jewelry. Necklaces, bracelets and earrings all can be found in Swarovski crystals as well as diamonds. Though, not everyone may be able to afford diamonds.

 

You can also go for old jewelry that your mother and grandmother wore. Not only will it add an ethnic touch, but will also save you money.

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Groom To-Dos: Top 10 Tips

Photo: Ira Lippke Studios

You bought the ring, popped the question, and now you get to kick back until your wedding day rolls around, right? Well, that’s one option, but the best way to keep her happy — and you out of the doghouse — is to get involved. Here are our top tips for being a great groom.

1. Have an Opinion

This is your wedding too, so get in on the planning. Pick a few things that interest you (food? music? photos?). You don’t have to wax poetic on the difference between lilies and daisies for the bridesmaid bouquets, but give your opinion on the major planning points; it’ll let your fiance know she’s not in this alone. And wouldn’t it be nice to know a little something about your wedding before you attend it?

If she’s doing the majority of the planning, she’s probably bordering on wedding overload.

 

2. Relish Your Registry

It may seem like a tedious task, but think about it: You get to wander around a store, picking things you want that someone most likely will buy you — you can’t beat that. Better yet, it’s now common to shop beyond the kitchen department. Consider home electronics, power tools, and camping gear. Can’t justify shelling out for a plasma screen yourself? Throw it on the registry, and a group of friends might buy it for you!

3. Don’t Be a Pushover — Really

She wants to register for a yellow comforter with little pink flowers, and you don’t want to have to stash your bedspread in the closet every time your friends come over. See if you can meet her halfway: Tell her the floral patterns are a bit much, but you’re fine with yellow, maybe in another style. You’ll make her happy and salvage your manhood.

4. Give Her a Break

If she’s doing the majority of the planning for your wedding, she’s probably bordering on wedding overload. You need to make sure she doesn’t have an ulcer (or a grudge!) by the time she walks down the aisle. Give her a night to relax and cook her dinner, do the dishes, rent her favorite movie (yes, even a chick flick), and remind her why wedding planning is worth the stress.

5. Be a Buffer

If your mom is calling your fiance every hour to talk about the wedding, you run the risk of major family conflict, with you stuck in the middle. Your mission: Keep the peace. Call your mom and let her know that while you appreciate her interest and excitement, it’s your wedding and she needs to give you two some planning space. Take responsibility for communicating with your family so that you can filter out petty worries from legitimate concerns.

6. Get Some Help

Has your fiance really hit the wall? Suggest hiring a planner for the day of your wedding. Your consultant will handle all the little details that neither you nor your bride will want to deal with, and it’ll be a relief to have a professional on hand to fix any little mix-ups.

7. Don’t Add Insult

Your fiance may complain about her mom who’s being a control freak, or about her uncle who wants to bring his new girlfriend, or her cousin who wants to bring all four of her kids. Don’t join in on the family bashing. Hear her out, agree with her, but don’t take this opportunity to tell her the things about her family that annoys you. Her bad mood will pass, but your careless comments may stick.

8. Arrange the Attire

Send out detailed emails to all your groomsmen filling them in on the relevant info for the formalwear — let them know when and where to get fitted for their tuxes, and remind them to return the suits the day after the wedding to avoid annoying late fees. Loop your fiance in on the emails to prove that you’ve got everything under control. The more info you can share, the better. Got directions to the tux place? Include them. Don’t assume they’ll know anything about this stuff. Did you before you got engaged?

9. Manage Your Men

Know your friend who loses his car keys at least once a week? Probably better not to make him responsible for bringing your ring to the ceremony. And your buddy who tends to drink too much? Make sure one of your more reliable (or sober) groomsmen keeps him from flirting with your fiance’s mom at the rehearsal dinner. Your guys don’t have to be saints, but they will have responsibilities, and it’s your job to make sure they know what they are.

10. Get Sentimental

The day of your wedding, send her a gift, flowers, or a sweet note to read while she’s getting ready. Or, at the reception, pull the videographer aside and tape a special message to her. She’ll see it later and we promise, she’ll love you all the more.