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Our world is an unsafe place. The task of parents is to teach them to behave prudently. A child should clearly understand what is dangerous. Very often our love leads to too much care of a child and we try to foresee the every desire of a child. And he begins to value security much more than the joy of communication, and his curiosity fades.

Moreover, do not pay attention to what is really interesting to him, and he grows up as an over-watchful and shy person. Or vice versa, from a feeling of protest or a desire to test oneself, he can stop paying attention even to reasonable safety requirements and rush into risky experiments like walking along the edge of roofs, or contact a dangerous company.

It must be noted that growing up children get away until they leave completely. We should understand that the harder we try to control them, the stronger their desire to distance themselves from us will be. When a child grows up, we need to rely on his skills and give him an opportunity to make his mistakes. By letting children out into the world, to a certain extent, we acknowledge that everything happens that life is full of surprises, and we cannot avoid it.

The problem is that the traditional education system considers the child not as a full member of the family or society, but as a dependent, unreasonable creature. Adults don’t him the right to decide. There is some controversy when parents want the child to be an adult, but at are not ready to provide the child with the independence. This contradiction does not lead to anything else but to the development in the child of even greater infantilism and self-doubt.