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One day one well-known person said that family and love is the most important thing in the world. The ideal family is a family where people are happy. The family is an important part of our society. The family is a community of people, which is based on a single common family activity, matrimonial ties and consanguinity. The ideal family should be big and friendly. It’s good to play with children, to care for them, to learn from them. The ideal family should have their own traditions, their holidays, their hobbies and their little secrets. It is necessary to respect each other. But most importantly, that people love each other, because without love there will be no respect, no understanding, no support.

Of course, everyone has his own ideas about ideal families. We can easily name the characteristics of a happy family, because they are the same. There is harmony, mutual understanding in a happy family. Children are educated and respected by their parents. However, it is impossible to identify the causes of the unhappiness of all unhappy families, since the causes of unhappiness are always different.

Unhappy families are unhappy in their own way. In one, for example, the wife does all the housework. In another family, there is no emotional connection between parents and children. You can often hear that there is no mutual understanding in the family. And even more often the wife does not support her husband in his endeavors. Many films and programs are dedicated to difficult teenagers that parents cannot cope with. These are families where the function of raising and socializing children is not fulfilled. There are families of alcoholics that any district police officer can tell you about, and of which, unfortunately, there are quite a few now.

So, reflecting on this urgent problem, I believe that all functions of the family are realized in happy families. That is why they are similar, and in the unhappy ones, different functions are not performed, therefore each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.

               As for my family, it is very friendly and helpful. When I feel bad or have some problems, I do know that my family will understand me and help me to solve my problems giving me good advice.

My family is not very big. My family consists of three people – my, mother, my father and me. We like doing sports, nature and travelling. Every member of a family works, but we find time for different events. We are always ready to help people in difficult situations.

Only true and pure love is the basis of the ideal family. Relationships built on this feelings, are the best. It is important that partners respect each other. You don’t need to change your partners. There is a special atmosphere ща trust in the ideal family. A house where people are happy has a special comfort. Sincerity is very important.

It is necessary that all family members have a personal space. But at the same time, you should try not to overdo, because when children and parents live their own lives, the family can no longer be called ideal family. Commonality of views and the right to defend their own position are two more bricks in the foundation of a strong family. If the wife does not take into account the opinion of her husband, how can they be happy? In such a situation, Chekhov’s statement that the main thing in a family is not love, but patience, becomes especially relevant.

Another important feature of the ideal family is trust. If one partner does not trust the other, then their feelings are not so sincere. After all, if you really love a person, you can’t suspect him of anything. I believe that the family plays an important role in our life. Our future often depends on the rules in the family. A happy child in an unhappy family is the rarest exception.

It shou;d be noted that children in the family also play an important role. To have ideal relations with parents they should be kind to them, trust and understand them. They should share everyday joys and sorrows with their parents. If there is a difficult situation, parents are the first people to help them and find the way out.

To sum up, families sometimes can have problems, and it is normal. But if people love each other and want live together, the family will handle the situation. It is important that for a spouse to spend time together, to walk and to go to the cinema or to restaurants, museums and theaters, to communicate and to learn new things about each other.

LITERATURE

1. Nina Zvereva: The family is what you need. Book about Love. Mann, Ivanov & Ferber, 2019

2. Vika Dmitrieva. ABC of a happy family. Eksmo, 2021.

3. Steve R. Covey. The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Families. Eksmo, 2019.

4. Olesya Malinskaya. your perfect family. Moscow, 2021.